Sunday, August 30, 2009
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Monday, August 24, 2009
Update - Children's Hospital Day
Everything went well. I had the ultrasound, MRI (which was not great as I'm a tad claustrophobic), and unexpected Fetal Echo on his heart, the tour of the RCNIC, and all the meetings and everything went great. We met with the surgeon and he told us the cyst could be one of two types, both requiring surgery 12-24 hours after his birth. One is a tad more serious in that it could cause more complications. The surgeon is leaning towards the better of the two types and we're happy about that. This type has no connection to Cystic Fibrosis and the other type has about an 8% of CF. So either way our chances for CF are pretty small right now. Praise God!! His heart was absolutely perfect on the Echo. At least as much as they could see. He had no congenital defects. He weighs about 6 lbs 6 ozs right now and is still breech.
The plan is to just wait out the next few weeks as he is no immediate danger right now and then deliver him close to the due date. The doctors agreed that this problem would not prohibit a normal delivery (no c-section). Only the breech position is what may make us have to go that route at this point and they thought we should be fine having our regular OB try to move him with the procedure they do and I might get to have a regular delivery. Oh I hope so!!! Even with the cyst doubling the size of his belly, they thought I'd be fine to deliver him.
So after he's born, he'll go to Children's and have the surgery and then the plan right now is that he'll be able to go home in 7-10 days. I spoke to many different people today including the surgeon about the breastfeeding and they are super supportive of it and provide pumps and bottles and all kinds of help to make sure they can give the baby the breastmilk right away. He will most likely be tube fed at first, but they'll feed him the breastmilk in the tube. I'm so excited about that too!!
Overall it was great news. They said hopefully we'll just get the surgery and recovery done and that'll be it. He should be fine after that. Again, Praise the Lord!!!
The people there at the hospital were so wonderful. They never took any shortcuts and made sure they were completely thorough in all their tests and assessments. They also treated us so well. I can't say enough about them.
Well I better rest now, I'm soooo tired. Oh and I had my other shower yesterday and I'll talk about that tomorrow as well! Thanks for everyones prayers!!
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Children's Day and Our First Baby Shower
And now for some fun! Last night was my first baby shower. Two friends from church had it for me and we invited a lot of Steve's family to this one. It was very nice and lots of fun. I'm so grateful to everyone who put time into doing the shower and to everyone who came. It was just what I needed. Celebrating the baby instead of worrying about the baby. I couldn't ask for better friends and family. Here's some pictures.
Opening presents!
Abby and the very beautiful and delicious cake!
My friends from church who had the shower for me. They are such wonderful friends and I"m so grateful for them!
These 3 pictures are our family playing games!
These pictures are a lot of our gifts. We got lots of stuff for nursing, lots of bath stuff (including the whale tub that Abby and Noah wanted so much!!), a set of monitors, a diaper bag and a beautiful handmade book. We are so blessed! All this and we still have another shower tomorrow!
These just show the bedding we decided to buy for Poppy. We already had some neutral bedding but after we found out he was a boy, we decided to get the Mickey Mouse bedding! It's so cute!!
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Level 2 Ultrasound
He is still breech and measuring bigger all around than what my dates say he should be. So that means he probably won't be moving and will be delivered via c-section. So the plan would then be to deliver him and transfer him via ambulance to Children's hospital for his surgery as soon as he is stable enough for the transfer. I don't know yet, if they want to take him early or if we can wait a few more weeks. According to the ultrasound today, he already weighs around 6 pounds. But I know those estimates can be off a bit.
Our first step is to go to Children's hospital (they are supposed to call later today with my appointment info), have an MRI done to verify the diagnosis, have an EKG done (although the Dr. said the heart and everything else looked great and he should know he spent sooo long looking at everything!), meet with the surgeon and then have a "team meeting" with the surgeon and the Dr. we saw today to make all the decisions and plans. Then I'll have more concrete info.
One scary part of this is that this condition he has is seen in patients with cystic fibrosis. It doesn't necessarily mean he has that, but it means he might. I don't know for sure how we go about figuring that out yet.
At this point I am so relieved to know that this problem can be fixed, although, I'm very upset that I will be stuck at another hospital recovering from my surgery while he's at Children's having his. I want to be with him. He may be whisked off before I can hold him and snuggle him. And I don't know how in the world I'm going to nurse him when I may not see him for a couple of days. I guess I'll just pump or something, I don't know.
I guess it'll all work out in the end. I did get to see a 3D image of his face and he's very cute!! Now it's another waiting game and I'll post more info as I get it!
Thanks so much to everyone for their prayers. I can truly feel a peace that I know is answer to someone's prayer and I'm so thankful for it.
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Sunday
But as Tom Petty says, the waiting is the hardest part. And boy is that true. While waiting your mind wanders to maybe it's this and maybe it's that. And if it is this then we'll have to do that. Or, I just hope it's not this. Anything but that.
And so, I've been trying to keep my mind off the maybe's. I've made some more freezer meals for after Poppy arrives and I'm making even more tonight and tomorrow. After that I'll have 4 chicken casseroles, 4 pepperoni pastas, 4 mexican cornbread casseroles, 6 meals of hamburger patties, 5 meals of pulled pork for sandwiches, 8 meals of homemade mashed potatoes...all of those homemade. Plus 3 lasagnas, 16 frozen pizzas, 3 meals of chicken nuggets, 3 meals of pizza rolls, tons of hotdogs and smoked sausage and many sides including fries, vegetables, fruit, breads, etc...that are all the premade, prepackaged variety. And some canned goods as well. We should be pretty well prepared as far as food goes after that.
I've also done a little shopping for our new little boy. We bought him a few outfits and some Disney stuff. I got him a pair of swimtrunks with matching shirt at the Disney store yesterday. Both were clearanced to 3.99. Hopefully they'll fit him next summer!! We also got him a Mickey hooded towel and a little Mickey rattle toy. It has been sort of fun knowing that he's a boy. I added some boy stuff to our registries too. I haven't ever been able to pick gender specific items before. That was fun. I will miss the big reveal at delivery of the sex, but this has been kind of nice too.
Well I better cut this short today. I need to get started on the cooking for tonight and I'd like to clip my coupons as well. And if I'm feeling really ambitious, I'm going to go downstairs and go through all of Noah's old clothes and pull out my favorites to bring up and put in Poppy's closet. I'm excited to see some of those things again!
I'll update after our appointment on Tuesday.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Week 33 update-news on Poppy
At my last appointment it looked like maybe there was something wrong with me: high blood pressure, retaining water, large measuring belly...something. Well it turns out, I'm fine. But Poppy's having some trouble.
First of all, we had to find out the sex because knowing what kind of parts were inside, were important to know. And so in order for me to use the proper pronouns during this post, I'll announce that we're having another......boy!! I'll explain the parts part in a minute.
From the ultrasound they determined that Poppy (yes I will still call him Poppy until he is born), has a distended belly. It's measuring quite larger than it should be. Which explains why I in turn am also measuring larger. They are unable at this time to pinpoint why it's larger, could be a blockage or fluid back-up in the intestines, could be a growth or cyst on kidneys or something else. We have a Level 2 ultrasound scheduled for next Tuesday with a specialist who can hopefully give us more answers. Basically at this point they could only tell us that whatever it is in there, is about the size of a tennis ball. They needed to tell us that they could rule out an ovarian cyst (which is apparently common) because the baby is not a girl, thus why we needed to know the sex.
He said after the next ultrasound, we'll be able to hopefully put together a plan about when the baby needs to be born, what procedures need to be done before or after the birth, and even if we need to deliver at a special hospital. Poppy is also currently breech. So with that news and a distended belly, I'm fearing a c-section. I haven't had one yet and I really don't want one, but of course whatever it takes to deliver Poppy is what I'll do.
So now we wait, at least this time I only have to wait 4 days. And in the meantime I'm going shopping for blue stuff!!
And don't forget, it's all in His hands.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Life with Us

Quick post:
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Pregnancy week 31
My blood pressure is high and teetering between hypertensive and prehypertensive. Previously my blood pressure had been very normal as in around 116/63 and is now right around the 140/90 mark, sometimes more, sometimes less. So that's a pretty big jump from my normal.
I've had a bit of swelling in the feet and hands, nothing too terrible, but enough to keep me in flip-flops only for awhile now!
My belly is also measuring quite bigger than it's supposed to be, which is also a change from my previous appointments. I'm 31 weeks now and it's normal to measure anywhere between 29 and 33 cm for 31 weeks. Well I"m measuring 38 cm.
And finally, I gained 8 pounds in just this last 4 weeks. Now keep in mind, previous to this, I had only gained 2-3 pounds the entire pregnancy (I lost almost 8 pounds in the first couple months).
So with all those fun symptoms, I earned myself another ultrasound visit!! She thinks I could be just retaining water, which would explain the weight gain, bigger belly and swelling. I guess we'll just have to wait and see. I won't have the ultrasound until the 13th, and then I'll also meet with the doctor the same day. So hopefully we'll get some answers. In the meantime, I'm trying to take it easy (as much as I can with our new school schedule and baby projects to finish), lower my sodium intake to try and help with the fluid retention and blood pressure and monitoring the numbers. We ordered our own blood pressure cuff and stethoscope which should be here by Monday or Tuesday.
As much as this has been a surprise to us, we know it wasn't a surprise to God. He already knew this was going to happen and He already knows what's going to happen later. And I feel a lot of peace with that. It's easy to get all worried, especially when you google the symptoms (not that I'd know anything about that!!), but worrying hasn't yet changed a diagnosis, so I'm trying my best to remain positive and let it all be in His hands!!
And the good thing is, we get to see Poppy again in the ultrasound!! I'm excited about that!!
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
This belly of mine.

I'm 30 weeks pregnant now!! (Please excuse the white streak on my shirt, I made homemade fried chicken tonight and I always end up with something all over my belly when I cook!!) But you can see how big the ol' belly is now!! I'm doing pretty well. My main complaints are tiredness and pelvic bone pain. Other than that I'm doing great. My baby showers are only a few weeks away, I'm so excited!! We have names picked out now, but I'm afraid we'll just end up calling them Poppy!! Even our family calls them that!! Poppy is a very active baby. The kids have loved feeling them flip and flop in the belly. Noah is so cute when it happens, he puts his hand on the belly and says Poppy in the sweetest little voice. I think they're both very excited about meeting this little one as I know Daddy and I are as well!!
Friday, July 24, 2009
Schedules and Curriculum
Monday
- Bible reading and memorization. (We're doing Proverbs this 8 weeks.)
- Pray and praise (a quick prayer for the day and a song of praise)
- Math (The kids are using Horizons math this year and Monday's also have math drills with flashcards)
- English and Handwriting/Copywork (We are using Rod & Staff English this year, Abby is doing A Reason for Handwriting and Noah is doing Bible copywork for his handwriting practice)
- Snack and Read Aloud (They snack while I read aloud)
- Spelling (Both kids are using A Reason for Spelling)
- My Father's World (this is our history, geography, some science, some art and some music curriculum all wrapped into one. I mainly consider it our history/geography lessons with some "added benefits" of science, art and music.)
- Lunch and chores (see chore chart below)
- Finish any earlier lessons
- Ohio Fun Book (we're using these Fun Books to learn a little Ohio history and facts)
- Outside time
- Quiet reading time (this includes Mom!!)
- Free time!! (should be at least 2-3 hours before dinner, so plenty of time to play and explore to their hearts desire!!)
Tuesday
- Bible reading and memorization, pray and praise
- Math (Horizons and Tuesday's have Calculadder also for extra drill)
- English and Handwriting
- Snack and read alouds
- Spelling
- My Fathers World
- Lunch and chores
- Science (we're using Apologia's Exploring Creation series books and we're using the Zoology 3: Land Creatures of the 6th Day book, we're very excited about this one, it looks awesome!! I found Noah reading it by himself yesterday!!)
- Ohio Fun Book
- Outside time
- Reading time
- Free time
Wednesday and Thursday (same schedule)
- Bible reading and memorization, pray and praise
- Math (Horizons and Wed: add flash card drills, Thur: add Calculadder)
- English and Handwriting
- Snack and read alouds
- Writing (we're using Writing Strands this year as our actual "writing curriculum" although there will be tons of other writing done this year in the form of journaling and notebooking)
- My Fathers World
- Lunch and chores
- Finish earlier work
- Science
- Spelling
- Outside time
- Reading time
- Free time
Friday
- Bible reading and memorization, pray and praise
- Math (we play a math game on Fridays along with our regular lesson, usually a math bingo game, they love that!)
- Spelling
- Snack and read alouds
- Nature Study (we're doing the one hour nature study found here, and use the Handbook of Nature Study book along with it)
- Handwriting and copywork
- Lunch and chores
- Art or music (these are switched every other week). (For art we are using Artistic pursuits and for music we're doing the Stories of the Great Composers)
- Logic Book (we're using the Mind Benders series of books for a little fun puzzle solving!!)
- Outside time
- Reading time
- Free time
So that's the basic idea for a how a week will hopefully go. I know I'll throw in a few field trips into the mix as well, for a little more excitement! And most of this curriculum is new to us, so the schedule will undoubtedly go under a few tweaks and changes as we figure out just how long we need for each subject.
Here's the chores we'll be doing as well. The kids lists are made to take only 10 - 15 minutes a day while I'm cooking lunch.
Noah:
Monday-empty small trash cans in bathrooms and laundry room
Tuesday-clean powder room (wipe down mirror, sink and toilet)
Wednesday-clean up playroom and vacuum it
Thursday-wipe down upstairs bathrooms (sinks and toilets using Lysol wipes)
Friday-wipe down kitchen cabinet fronts and appliances
Abby:
Monday-dust downstairs (using swiffer duster)
Tuesday-clean glass doors and windows (not all windows, just the ones in the doors)
Wednesday-clean up playroom
Thursday-dust upstairs
Friday-use Swiffer sweeper downstairs
Mommy: (I do my chores throughout the day!!)
Monday-2 loads of laundry, dishes, sweep and mop floors
Tuesday-2 loads of laundry, dishes, deep clean kitchen (counters, appliances, etc..)
Wednesday-whole house pick-up (go room to room straightening, removing garbage or dirty clothes, putting things where they go), dishes
Thursday-1 load of laundry, 1 load of bed linens, vacuum upstairs, dishes, make beds with clean linens
Friday-dishes, deep clean bathrooms (scrub toilets, floors, sinks, tubs and showers)
The kids are also responsible for keeping their rooms in "good" condition, they pick up their rooms right before bedtime. They also feed and water the doggie in the morning!!!
I also prepare the meals, and on Monday's Noah gets to help with lunch and dinner and on Wednesday's Abby gets to help. They don't consider these chores, they love helping with meal prep!! There's actually a lot they can do with the meal prep and they are both very interested in cooking and serving meals.
So there's that and I can now mark off scheduling from my to do list!!!
Friday, July 17, 2009
This and That
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Our Summer in Pictures....so far!!

Tuesday, June 16, 2009
An update date on Poppy's preparations!!
Right now I am 24 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I will be 25 weeks on Friday!! So far I've only gained 2 pounds. I'm apparently only gaining the actual baby weight and using up my "reserves" for anything else I need!! Trust me, I've been eating, but I suppose my metabolism has been boosted or something!! My doctor thinks it's fine as long as I'm not losing any weight and the baby is growing as it should and both of those are being met, so she's happy!
We had the ultrasound two weeks ago and everything looked perfect! I almost forgot to tell the tech that we didn't want to know the sex, but luckily I remembered in time!! It was so nice for all of us to see the baby. We saw all the important parts: spine, skull, arms, legs, heart, etc... and both the tech and the doctor said everything seemed great. That's such a relief. My next appointment is in two weeks and I have to do the yucky glucose test. Hopefully that'll all turn out great as well.
I've gotten pretty big now. Not much in my normal wardrobe fits except for a few shirts and elastic waisted skirts or pants. I haven't bought a ton of maternity clothes yet, I'm just trying to get by with the few things I have. Everyone has felt the baby move now. That's always fun. After the ultrasound and feeling it move, all of this just feels so much more real. Although there isn't a day that goes by when I question if it's real! I wanted so long to experience this again, and sometimes I just can't believe I'm blessed enough to get to do it again.
We have done a lot of the "getting ready" things that need to be done, but we still have a lot to do. We moved the kids playroom downstairs to clear out the last bedroom upstairs for the baby's room. I'm still working on organizing and purging the stuff in the new playroom. We've gotten rid of a lot of stuff already, but we still have so much. I just can't deal with the piles and piles of stuff anymore. So that room is still in a disarray.
We painted two of the walls in the baby room. I like the new colors, it's much brighter than it was before. We also installed a closet system and the furniture my parents bought us is now set up in there. I love it all!! I keep walking by the room and peering in at the crib. I was sure I'd never see a crib in my house again.
I organized all my diapers and wipes in the closet and took an inventory. As of right now, I have :
120 Newborn Diapers
257 Size 1 Diapers
256 Size 1-2 Diapers
312 Size 2 Diapers
520 Size 3 Diapers
346 Size 4 Diapers
52 Pull-Ups
82 Packages of Wipes
I feel pretty good about our amount of diapers up to size 3 and then I think we need to add more to the size 3, 4 and 5's.
Oh and names. We STILL can't decide on names. Boy or Girl. It's driving me crazy. I really want to get this settled and for some reason no one can agree!! Aaargh!! Maybe we'll just end up calling them Poppy since that's what we've called them all along!!
And I'll finish with just a few pics of the cute little clothes I've gotten for Poppy already. Their so cute!!
I bought these at Meijer a long time ago. I just thought they were so cute!!
I got these all on clearance at Target. All set with Disney shirts for Poppy's first trip this December!!!
The middle one is not new. It's one both Noah and Abby wore. Riley even wore it too! It means a lot. The other two are new. I think they're so cute. Even though we buy gender neutral ahead of time, I still think they're really cute!
This is one is really for a boy, but I thought it was so cute, I thought I'd take the chance!! I just loved it!!
Well that's it for now. I'll try and update in a few weeks!! We're almost ready for you Poppy!!!